Love and Cheating: What is the Problem?
We all love different things in life. Some people love music, others love food, and many love helping others. Why do we all have this type of love? It is because we feel a bond with people that are like us. We are all attracted to people that have the same likes and dislikes as ourselves, and we get pleasure from doing those things for another person.
Most of us seem to fall into one of two categories when it comes to love. On one hand, we could be completely consumed by our own lust for the object of our affection, and would not know what to do with our love. On the other hand, there is another type of person, who sometimes loves someone so much that they are driven crazy just thinking about them. These people usually have a strong feeling of love for their spouse or significant other, but they can’t enjoy the feeling because they feel guilty about what they are doing. In other words, they are cheating on their significant other.
In either case, cheating has many negative outcomes. First of all, it hurts the one you love. That is the whole point behind cheating, isn’t it? You feel so good about being with your significant other, but you know that he or she isn’t feeling the same way about you. Therefore, you feel guilty about cheating, even if to yourself you know it isn’t really worth it.
The other problem with cheating is that it can destroy the special connection you have between two people. It causes them to become distant and prevents them from being together in the future. It causes them to lose interest in the one they love, which can be extremely difficult for them to get back. It causes them to start focusing more on other people, rather than the one they love. It causes them to see their partner as someone who is not important. In short, cheating destroys a deep, love relationship.
All of these problems are bad enough, but what about when a cheating partner gets caught? Can he or she just leave the relationship? This is where things can get ugly. Even if the cheater wants to leave the relationship, he or she still has to feel guilty for hurting the one they love. They may feel that they can no longer love this person because of what they did, so they end the relationship.
The problem with love and cheating is that it can affect a person’s self image. They feel inadequate, worthless, and inadequate. They may try to distance themselves from people because of how they feel about themselves. This can lead to serious depression.