Making love has its own connotations, from the earliest times to the newest. To simplify things, making love can mean many different things to many different people, but in general it means the practice of having sexual intercourse. Although there may always be an underlying implication that making love necessarily involves some form of intimate, sexual, or spiritual activity, making love does not have to involve any of those things. As long as the parties involved are open to making it happen, it can be anything that they want it to be.
Making love may also mean communicating one another’s sexual needs. Although a relationship is not built on genitalia alone, there is still a need for communication and emotional fulfillment between partners. By making love, it is meant to communicate one another’s sexual needs, whether it is to increase arousal or stimulate procreation. Communication is also important between partners as it is during this time that one can learn about one another’s bodily functions and learn how to most effectively bring them to fruition.
Another way that one can make love that does not involve having sex is through the use of foreplay. Foreplay is defined by Webster as “the process of making something sexy or satisfying”. In order to be successful, foreplay needs to be planned well and needs to be specific to the other person. There can be no generic, free-for-all foreplay, as each and every partner is looking for a specific physical connection and there needs to be an emotional connection as well, such as trust.
It should be noted that making love is different for everyone. For instance, one partner may be looking for a purely physical connection while another partner is looking for intimacy. In addition, not everyone wants to have intercourse with one another. Therefore, it becomes important that one seeks to find the right kind of lovemaking for themselves. For instance, some people are looking to heighten their physical sensations and others are looking for something that leads to deeper emotional intimacy. In order to make love successfully, it is important that one seeks out the kind of lovemaking that works best for them.
In essence, love making is merely a means to an end – which ends in the eventual creation of a child. In order to create children, you need to have the right kind of desire, the right feelings and the ability to share those feelings and desires with another person. Thus, when it comes to lovemaking, you must seek to enhance your desire, your feelings, and your ability to share those feelings and desires. When you take all of these aspects into consideration, you will be able to make love successfully.
Lastly, when you go beyond the physical aspect, you open yourself up to experiencing a whole new set of emotions and feelings that can only enhance your experience when making love. For instance, being open to intimacy opens you up to a whole new level of emotional connection. This emotional connection can lead to even deeper intimacy, which in turn can lead to a further enhanced desire to intimacy. By taking the time to learn how to make love correctly, you will find yourself experiencing an emotional connection that is much deeper than your previous experience.
