Have you just met someone and you are starting to think about getting into a relationship with them? This is definitely a good thing, but sometimes it can feel like love after the lust has worn off. On the other hand, did you realize that you can speed up the process of getting into a relationship? There are ways to do this and they all have one thing in common: focus.
On average, studies have shown that men take on average three months to declare “I love you.” While women take on average five months to declare their feelings for someone new. If you do not really know the man that much, this is an indication that you may be confusing infatuation with true love. You may also be waiting too long to enjoy the feeling of a new connection with the man in your life, especially if those feelings are new and you haven’t had any before.
One of the easiest ways to boost your feelings for the man in your life is to keep yourself busy. Every time you spend time with your guy, do you get a little more in his life? Do you feel a little more connected to him? This does not mean that you should fill your days with all of his activities, but it does mean that you should give yourself a little bit of space from time to time. You will have more patience with him and it will feel a lot better if he spends time with you as well.
You also want to make sure that you are spending time together in a safe environment. This is especially important if the man you are involved with is from the very opposite gender. Although men can sometimes be very sensitive when it comes to relationships, most of them are fairly quick to point out that men are just as susceptible to heartbreak and heartache as women are. If you are spending too much time with someone who does not treat you well or does not treat you with respect, then you will start to feel insecure and begin to have negative feelings about your life in general. Men like it when women take care of themselves because it shows them that they are confident and in control of their own lives.
Another important factor to consider is how long you have been dating each other and how that relates to how long you have been spending time together. If you have been seeing him for about three months and he has been showing you only the good things about him, that does not mean that he loves you. You must remember that true love takes a long time to develop, so if your relationship has only been going on three months it will be even harder for him to feel like he truly loves you. It is better to spend three months building a strong, enduring foundation and to enjoy the romance and intimacy that you have with him before you start having sex with him.
On the other hand, if you are having a lot more sex than usual with your man, then that is definitely a good sign that he loves you. After all, the more he wants you, the more he is going to make an effort to please you. If he spends several nights every week calling you up just to tell you how happy he is and how much he misses you, then you can pretty much count on it that he thinks you are the best girlfriend in the world. On the other hand, if he has not been doing that and keeps it to himself most of the time, then that means that he has not fallen in love with you yet and he may just be using you as a way to cheat on you with another woman.