What Does Saying I Love You Actually Mean?
Love you in the right way is something that all of us wish for. We all want love in our lives and we want to have it on a regular basis. Unfortunately, love is hard to find and maintain at any given time. This is because love is a state of mind, and the mind is in a state of constant flux. To put love into practice is actually quite difficult for most of us, as we are often too busy to pay attention to what is happening in our lives.
The first step to manifesting your desire to love you in return is to take an honest look at your thoughts about each other. Have you got any thoughts of saying I love you to one another? If you do, make it a point to say them out loud and often. Think about the way you say those words when you really feel that you want to say it. It may be because of the way the language works with you and your partner.
For example, if you often say I love you to your partner but it means something different to each of you, it may be because you have used the phrase “I love you” in a way that hurts one of you. The phrase “I love you” used to mean something completely different to each of you when you first said it. When you decide to use “I love you” more often, it usually happens automatically with the use of the phrase.
Another example of how changing your thinking can manifest your loveability can be seen in the following sentence: I love you because you are beautiful. We usually say this using the words ‘you are beautiful’ and then followed by the word ‘beautiful.’ If we change the words to say I love you because you are tall instead of ‘you are beautiful,’ then it will definitely change our perception of beauty.
When you are using “I love you” all the time, it is because you believe in it deep down inside. It usually does not work very well in changing how people think. However, when you use the sentences with the words ‘i love you,’ it is easier to change their perception. They will automatically believe that it means what it says. If you do it in such a way that it becomes an encouragement instead of a command, then you will have created loveability.
Love is very powerful feeling that has been created by your relationship with your mate. It is not something that just happens after you have been together for three months. It only gets stronger if you work on having strong feelings at all times. The best way to make it real in your mind is to tell yourself that it feels like love, every time you are with him or her. Changing the way you are using the 3rd person pronoun when you are saying “I love you,” will make a big difference in how you truly feel about the other person.