When you’re in a romantic relationship, sex and love making are a big part of your connection. Many people use the terms “making love” and “having sex” interchangeably, but they are two different things. Love making often involves sexual intercourse but it also requires emotional and physical closeness. It is a unique closeness that is achieved only during love making.
The difference between having sex and making love is subtle but important. Sex alone can be satisfying in the right circumstances, but it’s not necessarily loving. The goal of love making is to express feelings of romance through sex, not just sexual intimacy. It is often a culmination of an emotional and spiritual connection. It can happen after a conversation, an emotional experience, or even after a goodnight kiss. He will be focused on you during sex and he will try to connect with you physically as well as emotionally. He will take his time and savor the intimate moments. He will talk and touch you in ways that are intimate, but not raunchy or dirty.
One of the most common signs that he is making love to you is that he wants to be in contact with you during sex. He may want to hold your hand or caress your face during sex. He will make eye contact with you to stay connected. He will not glance at the clock or out the window during sex and make sure that you are his sole focus.
He will compliment you during intimate moments and tell you how beautiful, desirable, and loved you are. He will speak in a soft, sweet tone that is calming and intimate. He will also whisper sweet nothings in your ear to keep the connection going after sex.
Another sign that he is making love to you is if he is excited for the next opportunity to make love with you. He will look forward to it and he will plan for when you can make love again. He will talk about it with you and you will probably have an open conversation about your lovemaking.
Lastly, when you are making love, he will be very attentive and he will take his time. He will not be in a rush or trying to get it over with as quickly as possible. He will linger in each moment and take his time to make it feel as intimate and special as possible.
In short, you can fuck anyone but you cannot make love with everyone. You have to be in a relationship with someone and you have to love them for it to be loving. Even if he bends you over the kitchen counter and takes your ass in his mouth, it’s not making love unless there is love. That’s why it is so important to spend a lot of time building your emotional and spiritual connection with the person you are in a romantic relationship with.