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Feb
When it comes to love making, many people have internalized scripts about how they think things should go in bed. These scripts can be shaped by the stereotypes they see in movies and TV or by the sexy scenes in pornography. However, these scripts often aren’t helpful in achieving the physical and emotional pleasures that are associated with loving and being loved. They can even be harmful. For instance, if someone has an idea of how their partner should act in bed, they may push too hard or fast, which can result in pain and discomfort. In addition, the person…