How to Love Someone – Developing an Attitude of Love
Are you interested in how to attract more love into your relationship? Are you currently in a relationship but have yet to discover the art of love? Have you been single for long and are ready for more? Do you want to know what people really desire from a relationship? Continue reading to discover the art of love and attract more love into your life today!
“Romantic love” is really a collection of complex and subtle behaviors and emotions characterized by passion, intimacy, devotion, trust, and caring. It involves emotional intimacy, caring, emotional support, attachment, desire, commitment, and security. Romantic love can range in intensity from mild to extremely passionate. It is often associated with a number of positive emotional feelings, such as happiness, exhilaration, excitement, joy, life fulfillment, and euphoria.
In order to attract more romance into your life you need to learn how to love yourself first. Many people equate self-love with an interest in themselves, but true self-love is much deeper and broader. Self-love is not just an interest in becoming better than someone else. True self-love is about being comfortable with who you are. In fact, true self-love includes qualities like: compassion, patience, humility, kindness, understanding, respect, forgiveness, concern, sharing, and listening. True self-love is not self-absorbed or consumed by comparisons to others.
By developing intense romantic love for yourself you will develop an intense liking for yourself and an appreciation for your own strengths, talents, abilities, talents, strengths, abilities, talents, etc. Embracing your faults, learning to accept them, forgiving them, accepting them wholeheartedly, and being willing to share your thoughts and feelings with another person are all ways in which you can cultivate a love for yourself. This type of love also makes you more compassionate towards others because you feel no need to defend every facet of yourself in the eyes of another person. Your intimate relationships with other people are built on a foundation of trust, compassion, openness, truth, integrity, kindness, acceptance, forgiveness, and love.
The reason that you like yourself so much is because you are more in tune with your own mental processes and brain functions. This is because when we fall in love, we access and use parts of our brain that are unused while in other types of relationships. These “unused” parts of the brain come in handy for generating feelings that are similar to those that occur when you are falling in love with someone else. As you begin to use these brain regions more you will notice that your thinking becomes more passionate, more focused, more excited about things, less anxious, more hopeful, more open to possibilities, more excited about the future, and less critical of self or others. You will find that as you start to experience love and begin to enjoy being in romantic relationships that the quality of your life will rise and your happiness will begin to blossom.
If you would like to feel and to experience more passion and excitement about your life then make it a goal to practice intimacy on a regular basis. By practicing intimacy with another person regularly you will be training yourself to go deeper into intimate loving feelings with another person. In this way you will be able to cultivate the qualities of emotional intelligence, compassion, honesty, integrity, kindness, truthfulness, appreciation, joyfulness, happiness, niceness, patience, acceptance, and intimacy. You will be on your way to having more positive emotions and feelings towards life and toward others.