Many couples struggle to master the art of making love. It is a skill that helps in deepening emotional intimacy, and is essential to a successful relationship. If you are in a relationship that lacks this important element, you will find yourself feeling unhappy and unfulfilled. The reason is that making love requires more than merely physical intercourse. It involves a lot of care, attention, and affection. You need to make sure you are with a partner who understands the true meaning of this act and can master it, so that you can enjoy your sexual encounters with him or her.
The difference between having sex and making love is subjective, as they can look similar to each other and involve the same sexual acts. However, there are a few key differences that you should know. One of the most significant differences is that having sex is generally done for the sake of pleasure, but making love aims to please not only sexual but also the physical, mental and emotional urges of the partner.
Another difference is that a man who wants to make love to you will often be very careful and smooth during sexual intercourse. He will maintain eye contact and show a lot of affection in the way that he touches you, as he is concerned about forming a bond with you. This is a sign that he wants to establish an intimate emotional connection with you and that he is not interested in a casual sex life.
He will also try to surprise you with new sexual experiences, such as changing the scenery in the bedroom and trying different sex positions. He will be open to experimenting with sex toys, as well, and this is an indication that he wants to please you in every possible way. He will even kiss and caress you all over, including the areas that most men are embarrassed about touching, such as their crotch or testicles.
In addition to the above, he will also be very patient and take his time with you during sex. This is another sign that he really does want to make love to you, and that he wants to enjoy the process of penetration and orgasm. It is during orgasm that you enter another realm, where you almost cease to exist as yourself.
It is important that you set the mood, by dimming the lights and playing some sexy music. You should also get dressed in a sexy outfit and apply a bit of perfume. You can also use a lubricant to enhance the sensation. When you are ready to start, stroke his head of his penis with the flat of your hand, and then stroke the bottom of his thigh, moving down toward his knees, and then back up again. You should also stroke his genital area with your hands, as this is very satisfying for many men. You can also tie him up to show him your dominance and to help keep him focused on the pleasure of penetration.
