Everyone knows what sex is, but few people know what it means to make love. Making love is a much more intense experience than just putting on some erotic music and slipping between the sheets. It involves a deep emotional connection and tenderness that regular sex often lacks. Creating the mood, foreplay, gratifying each other and taking it slow are all essential to loving making.
Getting aroused can be as simple as closing your eyes and fantasizing about the things you want your man to do to you. Once you’re in the right mindset, you can start teasing him and telling him what you want from him. Then, you can turn down the lights and use a husky voice to add intensity to your words. This will let him know that you’re in control. Then, he can start giving you all the pleasure you crave.
If a man is a lover, he will care about your feelings and wants during sex. He will take it slow and go deeper, which will make you feel like he’s exploring you. He will also talk to you during sex, which can help build intimacy and keep you from feeling bored. He will make sure that you are comfortable at all times.
He will want to please you by kissing, stroking and touching your body in the most sensual ways possible. He will also tell you sweet and romantic things and say how much he loves you. He will be attentive and listen to what you want, even if that’s just to hold you and talk about how much he loves you.
Most of all, he will treat you with respect and dignity. He will make sure that you are safe and secure, which will help you trust him and open up to him. Unlike some men, he won’t try to pressure you into doing anything you don’t want to do. He will respect your boundaries and will never hurt you during sex.
Having sex is always going to be pleasurable and exciting, but knowing how to make love takes that excitement and makes it something you look forward to every time you are in the bedroom with your partner. Foreplay, creating the mood, grazing each other, slow sex and talking during sex are all essential to making love and keeping the passion alive. In the end, making love is about connecting with your partner and showing them that you value them. This is why it is so important to focus on building trust outside of the bedroom.
