For most of us, making love is a magical experience that creates physical and emotional intimacy. In many ways, it is a rite of passage and a time to show your partner how much you love them. But what exactly is it that makes this act so special and why does it sometimes feel so difficult to communicate?
As defined on Thought Catalog, sex is the act of engaging in sexual intercourse with another person. This may be for a variety of reasons including: lust, intimacy, comfort, to fulfill sexual desires, boredom, relief, to express love, to fulfill expectations, baby making and more. For those looking to experience sex in the most intimate way, foreplay is essential.
This includes touching, cuddling, kissing and more. It is important to have a comfortable, private setting where you can engage in this sensual activity. Intimate positions, like the missionary position, the coital alignment technique (CAT position) or spooning are ideal for this purpose. To enhance your experience, make sure to use eye contact and touch your partner to build tension and anticipation. It is also a good idea to give your partner verbal encouragement through flirtatious talk, which will increase the intensity of pleasure.
A man who enjoys making love will treat you with respect and kindness in bed. He will shower you with compliments and tell you how beautiful, desirable and loved you are. He will also ask you what your pleasure preferences are and listen attentively to you. He will take the time to prepare for sex by shaving, showering and using a sexy-smelling cologne or deodorant before entering the bedroom.
When he’s making love to you, he will spend time smelling his skin and enjoying the sensation of touching each other in the most intimate way. He’ll also take the time to put on music that makes you want to be closer and kiss him passionately. He’ll also make plans for when you can make love again and will be proactive in expressing his desire for you.
It’s not always easy to convey your emotions to your partner, especially when the moment is so intense. But it is important to make your feelings known because this is what will allow you to fully connect with each other. Taking the time to make love to your partner will help you bond with them and will ensure that every sexual encounter is an experience to be cherished. So next time you’re in the mood, don’t be afraid to embrace this sacred experience with your partner and get ready to fall deeply in love!
