When people hear the term “making love,” they often think of sexual activity. While that is certainly part of it, the experience of making love is much more than just a sexual act. It is a way of being, an expression of the deepest emotions between two lovers, and an opportunity to connect in ways that go beyond sexual pleasure.
It’s not a secret that men and women want different things in bed. But not everyone knows how to bring those desires out of hiding and into a sensual, loving experience. There are many ways that you can make your partner feel like they are the most important person in the room, and it starts long before you enter the bedroom.
Make sure the space is clean and inviting. Set out fresh sheets, light a candle and turn the music up to create the perfect atmosphere for your lovemaking. You may also want to consider hiring a babysitter or renting a hotel room for the night so that you can both completely focus on each other.
A man who wants to make love with you will be patient and not rush the process. He will wait for you to get aroused before moving in and he’ll take his time to explore all of your pleasure zones. He’ll also remember your favorite positions and he might even ask you to move in new ways that make you both happy.
He’ll take the time to kiss you and fondle you, igniting your senses and awakening your soul. He’ll also take the time to talk to you during sex, giving you a deeper connection to him and to your love for each other. He’ll use his hands to caress you and his lips to lick every inch of your body, including those areas that are usually off limits to him.
During sex, he’ll tell you romantic things and words of affirmation. He’ll also check in on you to see how you’re feeling and if you need anything. He’ll always respect your boundaries and never try to hurt you during sex.
A true lover will never use sex to get a power over you. Instead, he’ll use it to strengthen your bond and to build trust. If he ever tries to control you during sex or takes advantage of you in any way, it’s a sign that he is not in love with you.
The most important thing you can do to make love with your man is to stay connected to him emotionally outside of the bedroom. If you’re fighting, arguing or otherwise emotionally disconnected from him, it will be impossible for you to make love together. So spend some quality time outside the bedroom and then bring that same care into the bed so that you can make love to the fullest. You’ll both be happier and more fulfilled for it. Good luck!
