Making love is a beautiful experience that can forge a deeper emotional connection with your partner. It is a wonderful way to show your partner how much you care about them and to strengthen the bond between you. You can’t make love if your relationship is under strain, though, and it is important to ensure that the feelings you have for each other outside of the bedroom don’t interfere with what goes on inside.
Whether you are trying to make love or just have sex, the location, ambience and music can all play a role in how you feel. If you want to be in the mood to make love, choose a romantic spot that is free of distractions and has dim lighting and some candles if possible. If you want to have sex, use condoms with a numbing lubricant like benzocaine if needed. You can also add some scented cologne or room spray or pheromones to the mix to help set the mood and make you feel more sensual and attracted to your partner.
Another thing to consider is that making love involves a deep level of intimacy and sexual satisfaction. If you just want sex, then you can do that with anyone and it won’t be the same. When you make love with someone, it is usually done to satisfy a deep emotional need as well as a physical one. This is why it is often called ‘love-making’.
A man who is interested in making love with you will pay attention to your arousal and be attentive to what works for you. He will also likely focus on giving you pleasure and take things slower than he would if he were just having sex with you.
The first sign that he wants to make love is when he asks you what position and pressure you prefer for sex. He will also likely ask you how often you want to make love and if there is anything that you prefer not to do.
He will also be interested in your sexual history and he may even talk about it during or after sex. This is an indication that he wants to connect with you emotionally as well as physically and he is interested in finding out more about you.
He will also be careful to only have sex with you and not friends or family members who are just using him for their own pleasure. This is a clear indication that he is serious about your relationship and that he loves you. He will not try to have sex with people who don’t give him the same euphoric feeling that he gets from you. The only exception to this is if you have a physical relationship with an ex-boyfriend or friend-with-benefits that has become more intimate than just physical sex. If this is the case, then it might be time to reassess your relationship and decide what you want out of it.