20
May
When you first fall in love, it's all-consuming and exciting. You can't stop thinking about the person and want to spend every moment with them. You'll talk about them all the time on the phone and over text, even if it's only for a few seconds. Your whole body feels a little lighter and you just want to tell the world how much they mean to you. Over time, though, that initial phase starts to wane as challenges arise and reality sets in. That's when it's important to remember what love really means for you. While there's some debate about…