Making love is a soulful and intimate experience that takes two people together to achieve, in the words of Brene Brown, “an experience of trust, belonging, empathy, joy, creativity, and vulnerability.”
The best lovers are able to make love not just when their bodies are meeting in uninhibited passion, but also when their hearts are connecting, and forming an ever-deeper bond. This kind of lovemaking begins with a wide open heart.
When a man is in love with you, he will always respect your boundaries. He will never push them or cross them, and he will never try to change them after you’ve told him what you like or don’t like.
He’ll also never go out of his way to make you feel bad or uncomfortable — even when it’s hard to resist his urge. For example, if you ask him to stop after something hurts, he’ll do so immediately. He’ll also be very respectful of your body when he’s making love with you, which means that he won’t try to force anything on you or take advantage of you.
If he shows up to your house looking fresh and clean, that’s an indication that he wants to impress you and show his respect for you. He took the time and effort to shower and put on sexy smelling cologne or deodorant, which is another sign that he is in love with you.
A man who is in love with you will try to please you and enjoy every aspect of the sexual act. He’ll look into your eyes while making love, and he’ll be very gentle. He’ll want to kiss and caress all of your body, from your face to the parts that you hide away from him. He will also make sure to give you a big and satisfying hug when he’s finished.
The most important thing is that your man will be very attentive to you while he’s making love. He’ll be listening to you, and he’ll be trying to figure out how to make it even more enjoyable for you. He’ll also be asking you what you want, so he can try to meet all of your needs.
You’ll know that he loves you when he smiles, laughs and tries to lighten the mood between the sheets. He’ll find ways to share his own jokes or sexy-sexy things that are on his mind during the act, so he can make you laugh.
He’ll be very sensitive and empathetic while he’s making love, which is a sign that he really cares about you and wants to make you happy. He’ll be genuinely concerned about what you need and want, so that he can do everything possible to make it happen for you.
The most important thing is that your man will love you and enjoy the experience. He’ll make you laugh, cry and feel comfortable enough to let loose on the sexy-sexy part of the experience. He’ll take it slow and enjoy the whole process, which is another sign that he’s in love with you and wants to be with you for more than just sex.