Making love is a powerful, meaningful act that can bring couples closer together and strengthen their emotional bonds. In fact, it can even change how people think and feel overall.
Compared to having sex, which is usually more about fulfilling your personal needs (like wanting a quickie with your best friend or a massage with a new guy), love making is much more about meeting your partner’s emotional and physical desires. The act can put a lot of pressure on both partners, so it’s important to make sure the experience is as good as possible, and to choose a sensual space that both you and your partner will enjoy.
You should take your time and enjoy each moment of the sex. It’s also a good idea to try and reach deep into her body, touch different parts of it, and be more sensitive. This is what will truly sate her and make her feel comfortable.
Another important part of making love is to be open and honest about it. This can be difficult for many, but it’s a key factor in strengthening your relationship and achieving greater intimacy with your partner.
One way to do this is to speak up during sex and let him know what you want, whether it be an earth-shattering orgasm, or just an intense moan that can be used as a guide for his hand or head to where you’d like to go.
If he’s in control and is not letting you have a say, this is probably a sign that he doesn’t care about your wishes and wants you for sex only. This is a dangerous situation to be in, because you’re not only not getting your desired sexual pleasure, but you’re also missing out on the intimacy and connection that makes you fall in love.
A man who is invested in making love to you will show that he is committed to your needs by ensuring that he brings you to orgasm. He may do this more than once to show that he is deeply in love with you and wants you for more than just sex.
He might move a pillow out of the way so you can have a more pleasurable position or mirror you so you both see what he likes and doesn’t like about your erogenous zones. He might also be more aware of your preferences when it comes to what you enjoy in bed and will ensure that he is keeping you satisfied.
Then, there’s also the way he kisses you while making love. If he kisses you a lot, this is a strong indicator that he loves you and values your affection. He may also make sure that you are thoroughly enjoying each moment, so that you don’t feel cheated.
Vulnerability is an important aspect of lovemaking and should be embraced by all partners. It’s an element that allows people to be vulnerable and trust each other, which can lead to feelings of intimacy, belonging, joy, trust, creativity, and much more.